I explain to him, professionally, that he should ejaculate into the cup we provided. Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex. I mean even if its just for the patient to feel more comfortable, its worth it! directions too literally and tried to shove a handful of semen through the office window. ", "I had some truly terrible food in Ukraine, particularly in the Chornobyl exclusion zone workers' cafeteria, which we were kindly allowed to use when touring. The first few times they are on their best behavior. So the responses you're about to read are a mixed bag, some from medical professionals, some from patients, some from family members - all awkward. Find it very sad/creepy to chat up your subs with fake affection, I mean who are the kind of people to pay for this delusion? I looked at her with my jaw dropped and it clicked a few seconds later that she was talking about the difficulty of opening the tool, and not my vagina. At the doctor: Strip down like ya just don't care (but I do) The practice has three clinics, I remember wearing rather snug, warm outer snowsuit and leotards underneath. Created for people with ongoing healthcare needs but benefits everyone. Wanting to see the best in everyone is not a crime. Alright fine. Not something you sell for money just my opinion. Or should I stop wearing gym clothes to the supermarket after I work out because its not the French thing to do? Yes, there are some enlightened doctors and nurses in the US who have a no fuss approach to nudity. OK anyway, back to todays story. WebUrology. France is about 25. Pressure around and in the bladder. We argue about how stupid it is to tell people to do shit you dont want them to do for a few minutes. He touches them for just a brief second, takes a step back, and exclaims Wow! We know you can choose a lot of sites to read, but we want you to know that were thankful you chose Did You Know. I showed up for my annual girly checkup to find out that my usual doctor had been called to some medical emergency and was asked if I would I mind an OBGYN student performing the pelvic exam (supervised, of course). How Bad Does It Hurt Just some blockage in the vas deferens. And then she told me that masturbation should help clear it up. But so often the victim wont even realize or they wont have much more than just a gut instinct. Now Im at the point where my stomach starts to hurt. ", "Thats super illegal and sites like that have protections in place. ", "Shy slightly nerdy guys. Really, its the easiest thing in the world to say youre sorry and move on, and theyre only slowly getting that. Anyhow, these are some mostly innocuous stories of visits to the doctors office, where embarrassment reigns supreme over other regular nuisances one might encounter while seeingdoctor, like finding out your pre-existing cancer is no longer covered by your insurance: I went in for a prostate exam, and when the doctor was performing it, I ejaculated. I mentioned that Im not embarrassed, and she said that she wasnt either. I was also regretting my decision to wear a lacey thong!! So would I mind? So, I went to the imaging center, did the paperwork, went into the room, and sat on the table. Its just skin and nudity is the most natural thing in the world. Hi there, love hearing from French people in the US to get the flip side of things. A commenter before you who was a doctor in France weighed in and said that a doctor watching you undress is NOT normal, in his opinion. The Lamb Clinic provides a comprehensive assessment and customized treatment plan for all new patients utilizing both interventional and non-interventional treatment methods. Going to the doctor in France vs. the USA, New House WTF #1: Exposed wires and naked bulbs, Going to the doctor in France: What you need to know, 10 Facts about Paris you definitely dont know . Anyway, shes got my balls in her hand, and Im kind of a smart ass so I look right into her eyes and say Oh yeah cradle the balls, stroke the shaft.. Hi, yes we got it and my daughter is ok. Over here, sometimes, it feels like health is just like any other business like car maintenance for example. Scary shit for an 18-year-old boy (or anyone, really). Culture shock? Ive been to going to a female doctor for physical exams and other medical care only in the U.S. for several years, who known me well too. WebEmbarrassing erections during a medical exam #menshealth Dr. Susie Gronski, PT, DPT 28.7K subscribers Subscribe 1.5M views 1 year ago Worried about getting an erection Taking risks. I mean he wasnt ogling me or anything just efficiently making use of his time I guess to get my next appointment in the books while I was getting dressed. I am a doctor doing my job. I live in the United States and have adopted the nudist/naturist subculture. that it took a while to get things going. I had to go to a specialist urologist due to pain in my ding dong. When I was 15, I went to my pediatrician for a check up. Hey I just had the most emarrassing exam ever.I went in to my local medi clinic to have a really bad ingrown hair looked at right under my testicles.Of course to my luck I had to get an older female doctor on call that day.Now I have always been afraid of getting an erection, and now my first female doctor ,for this lol.Anyways I when she came in and checked me everything went good,but then she said I need to follow her to the treatment room.Well then she had me take off my clothes and lay on the table with my feet in those things on the back of the table. My balls hurt. Further, theyre able to talk about what theyd do differently or what theyve learned, and how they took steps to repair the relationships. We turned and every time the patient coughed, urine shot out about two feet. Hope your daughter is OK! Caw!". When I asked her why, she said her previous doctors always required her to strip to her bra & pants for any examination so they could do a general inspection. And when they abuse the trust? Your email address will not be published. So, I had just gotten a diva cup, and after a couple days I was feeling overly confident and decided this would be the night I kept it in over-night, but I guess it had decided to go much deeper than it should have. Did the doctor make you strip completely naked (no bra & pants) in front of them? Urologists look at patients genitals all day, so we have seen it all. Traveling to places that intrigue you. Hi Eddie/Scooby, youve left numerous comments like this here on this post and elsewhere on my blog and theyre really off-topic. I had to be stripped down so they could make sure I was okay. ", "Given its harsh climate necessitating a largely nomadic and pastoral lifestyle, just not a lot of crops that could historically be incorporated into traditional meals. ", "Dry sense of humor. He was examining my eye and he said, OK, now open wide.. I respect the culture, but it is not something I would ever actively choose to eat! Curious to hear what strangers online go for when superficially evaluating someone, Classic_Potential_66 asked: "I kinda like a prominent nose. I think he's messing with me and just answer "masturbation." I dont have another physical therapist/sauna experience to compare this to, so not sure if him peeking in the window to see how I was doing was normal. After about 15 minutes of her slowly rubbing that plastic tool all over my nuts, she finished up and said Well, your testicles are healthy! Nerds are intelligent and thats sexy as hell. You only have the one. Its really nice having a physical examination by two female medical specialists ( doctor and RN nurse) Although this in the U.S.A, both ladies are very good, professional and gentle with me, as a male. See how you start to overthink these things? There are a few dishes that are okay, but the lack of strong spices or seasoning makes this something I don't enjoy much. These tests look at how well the bladder, sphincters, and urethra are storing and releasing urine (pee). I think there are differences in every culture in regard to a whole host of things, many of which I write about on my blog. High bridge of the nose. I dont want to be that prude American but also am not comfortable with how everything is done here. Leave it up to the patients, but if some want to pass on gowns and other coverage and go au natural, let them. Then the doctor made me bend over so they could check my spine. I did the same arms-over-chest-shuffle to the xray machine and beat it out of there afterwards as fast as possible! I had prostate removed because of cancer in 20-2. All of us can appreciate an excellent meal, but our opinion of an amazing meal will vary from person to person. First off, for those who dont know what a diva cup is, its a reusable silicone cup you put in your vagina while menstruating. Im impressed you were able to stay relatively calm when that physical therapist walked in on you like that. Any doctors out there? ", "When theyre always the victim in conflicts with friends, coworkers, etc. Chlamydia, an STI, often has no symptoms, but must be treated. Im holding in my diarrhea-churning stomach. Because as long as you dont cross the line, you can call whatever youre doing doctor stuff, you know what I mean? He cant get it out, so he enlists the help of two nurses, all of whom were staring sympathetically at my vag, unsure how to proceed. But no. Naked in front of the doctor seems to be the norm. Luckily I had my sports bra that I kept on but decided to head in sans underwear. Interesting thread for me. I like privacy! Once finished, he asked me if his trainee could also take a look, Read on for being naked in front of doctors in France! I had a 3:15 p.m. appointment at the physical therapist for a persistent knot in my back along with a few other issues (its totally cheap to go, so why not) and learned right away that its best to wear a loose shirt that gives him easy access to my back if I dont want to strip down up top. The techs were two young guys and I was completely mortified! Dont be a prude. I'd worry about whatever issues her career might entail re: burnout on sex and emotional intimacy, crazy subscribers, doxxing, etc. Older man teasing me after his prostate exam that I "took his anal virginity". I have a relatively straight set of natural chompers on me, but I can't stand unnaturally straight teeth. I tried to take my mind off of it by asking her questions about the machine and how it worked (did you know that they can place the cursor on the screen onto the image of a vein or artery and the machine will only pick up sound for that specific part?). Its the first time Ive ever had a medical professional be so casual about nudity with me. 2001-2023 The Pain Reliever Corporation. She did that thing that doctors do when they put their hands down your pants, cup your sack and tell you to cough. Being terrified as I was that my wife was in the process of delivering our firstborn, I helpfully offered up "Don't worry, some people pay good money for that." Mom explains the situation, as Im borderline delusional. Can you, as a partner, accept this side of a lover? I wouldn't like a partner interacting with other people sexually in this context or fake-romantically. Thanks. I get erections in situations even when I am not sexually tempted. My conversion to full nudity for medical examinations came a few years earlier at a full skin examination by a dermatologist. It had been happening a lot lately, and I can usually fix it by massaging them in the shower. So I go in there, gotta pee like a racehorse but Im holding it in through sheer willpower. As Chappelle would say. Preference for other facial attributes were mentioned here. I climb upstairs and find some Tylenol, and I take more than the recommended dosage. But I didnt want to seem like a prude so I didnt say anything. We went to visit a friend of his from high school, who is nearing the end of her time in medical school. I like being medically examined by her this way, than being totally naked with no gown covering me. She was surprised because in France, the doctor would do it if s/he thought it was necessary and you would be covered by the scurit sociale. ", "Check out her page to see if she posted us having sex. I love people who make me laugh and are nonchalant about it. This situation is one such incident I would leave the clinic becasue it was not a male doctor. ", "If we are in a relationship and I love you. Back in middle school, I got kicked in the balls during a soccer game. I remember them saying we arent getting any return. Sigh.) It should be easy enough hopefully! I went in to my normal family doctor to check it out, and he said we needed to get an ultrasound on it to make sure it wasnt cancer. He starts off our encounter seeming somewhat suspicious like maybe I am a fetishist/ bored/ whatever, but Im probably definitely wasting his time. WebUrology is the medical and surgical specialty that focuses on the urinary tracts of males and females, and on the reproductive system of males. ", "Generally, cold places with a lack of access to spices or not much agricultural history make the worst food and Mongolia checks all those boxes. The nurse took my BP and weighed me Suffice it to say Im NOT looking forward to my initial medical exam and the ones to follow! Embrace it. Whenever doing anything in France I always try to balance my cultural biases with the polite French way and have to say that at the doctor, I get kind of flustered. #2. ", "We eat it lovingly, and there's nothing wrong with it. Of course there are other factors involved but by and large the more nude-friendly a country the lower the teenage pregnancy rate. It did. She gives me this wide-eyed look. Then for me our bodies are sacred to our relationship. Now if he was a close talker who stared a little too long and gave off a creepy vibe and was maybe 30 years older than me? My involvement with bladder cancer patients consists of surveillance flexible cystoscopy, this procedure is done as a day case and involves the use of a scope that provides an image of the lower urinary tract. Flow rates and other factors. Its difficult to say no to someone you see as a professional, but they see so many naked bodies theyve become desensitized to it. Life is meant to be lived. Hospitals: Mayo Clinic-Phoenix. Im pretty sure I felt more awkward than she did! Undressing and being completely naked with them, doesnt seem to bother them, as I do get somewhat embarrassed when in the nude with no gown, yet I do feel very at ease with them helping to completely undress me and both the female doctor and her nurse do like my summer attire, as Im stripped naked and examined by the female doctor. Like I said, men dont get a choice and its getting worse and worse for us. If I want to cover up, Ill cover up and if a doctor is weird, I wont go back. After about 15 minutes of her slowly rubbing that plastic tool all over my nuts, she finished up and said Well, your testicles are healthy! I dont feel confortable being naked, even if theyre professionals. Its my first comment on your blog, but I have to say this: I dont think its a cultural difference, acting like that for a doctor is not normal (Im French). And if its out of control, Ill definitely change doctors. It was the most fun I've ever had at the lady doctor. They saw meconium (first baby poop) in the amniotic fluid, so they started flushing me out. I know it was just procedure but it was sooo embarrassing! I was shocked when she started removing her top! Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia (BPH) Elevated PSA; Erectile Dysfunction; Hematuria; Incontinence; Kidney Stones; Maybe women would be less stressed if they stepped up to the plate on that equality thing and didnt label all men as being untrustworthy. It came highly recommended by the South African guy running the tour we were on. Getting excited about lifes simple pleasures. again, so it's not something I'd feel comfortable in supporting. Then the tech would come back and knock to see if youre ready. Bumps in the genital area might be STDs, but are usually not serious. The naked human body is beautiful. to Pee With Chlamydia? Not sure of x-ray costs but its not $30 or anything. Never being at fault, always being the victim, and not taking responsibility for repair are huge red flags. Yes, I had to get totally naked and was somewhat embarrassed as a guy while the nurse and and female watched my whole male medical plight, especially when I was in mens spandex sportswear with a healthy involuntary erection and slowly undressing layer by layer til finally completely naked. Terms and conditions for the use of this DrLamb.com web site are found via the LEGAL link on the homepage of this site. After a couple minutes of waiting, in comes the nurse. before being seen by her. I glanced at the boy and Im pretty sure he was checking out my bum! Didn't find the answer you were looking for? Best Buddies Turkey Ekibi; Videolar; Bize Ulan; embarrassing urology exam 27 ub. I guess being naked for a medical exam is just a normal thing for them in France and even if their patients are male or female. Thank y'all for the courage! When he was done he said, "I've had such a nice chat with you I almost wish you had a third ball." And there are those who appreciate one's inner qualities. I instantly started feeling that familiar tingle down low and knew I was in for some trouble. Some health plans in the US dont have ER coverage or coverage has to be pre-approved so the doctor was just covering his butt. I'm primary care. ", "ETA: Judging by the responses I've gotten on this I'm gonna start telling people nice things about them more often haha. Reddit doesn't disappoint. People are entitled to do what they please, of course. I took some ibuprofen, sucked it up, and kept playing. We suppose they're so used to not talking about a patient's personal issues with anyone but them (thank you HIPPA!) I definitely would be the kind of person to say something if I wasnt comfortable with a situation. ", "Once we've figured out the details, I'd make a decision. its all seems normal, she was prolly asking you those questions to try to make you more calm and relaxed, abd wiping u clean becuz that what doctors do, if you went to the doctor and u were bleeding would u expect them to tell you to clean off ur own blood. In a funny way but totally a pervert. I dont want to be naked if I dont have to, and even then, they could give us a gown or something. French girl here: my obgyn has a little paravent to undress behind. for me I think a woman is way more embarrassing. Wincing, I climb up to my parents room. I bet that happens everywhere though. He doesn't understand. They know how the game works. Being French, it surprised us. We refuse to be exposed unnecessarily and your attitude encourages their dismissive attitude. Hi Dr. M, thank you for your insight! The food is always just a wad of boiled ingredients. I can assue you 100% that this is perfectly normal. A long button down is a great suggestion. And even if we didn't mean to, our words and behavior can hurt other people's feeling. http://www.pol-editeur.com/index.php?spec=livre&ISBN=978-2-86744-603-0. Haha Im a guy (probably should have mentioned that). Like even automatic facial recognition of (I assume just a percentage) of the content posted. Again, I have no issues with nudity but when the doctor is in a position of power and youre the patient, sometimes providing a sheet to cover up with or turning ones back to let someone undress in private goes a long way. Im not religious and Im not put off by nudity in the least. Letting your hair down. These both really offend me. People have different thoughts on conventional beauty. The other day its bread for dinner (no joke) and Sunday more than likely youre eating Fries and some other deep-fried snacks. She was blonde, probably about 25 and was smoking hot. I purposely wore modest panties that completely covered my butt and a sports bra. Yes!!! But Id still trust the doctor to do his job without the extras. The human body in its naked form is not something to be embarrassed or ashamed about. The doctor is in a position of power and as the patient, you want to follow the doctors orders he/she is the educated one who is trying to help so its only normal to trust them. There is much anxiety on my part, as do have an erection at times and do fear she may find a reveling development of a mans disease, as I get older. Obviously he had to go to the OR due to the giant knot tied in the cord. who played christopher ewing as a baby on dallas Yeni Gn skenderun Gazetesi DISCOVER THE ART OF PUBLISHING By the time she finishes telling me what will happen, all my sexy snug spandex clothes are off and Im totally naked with her and her female medical staff. It's one that just doesn't get old. '", "The Netherlands. upon arriving in France, all newbies have to have a medical examination including a chest X-ray to check for TB before being issued a permanent residency card. I know that feeling, as the same thing happened to me at a skin doctor specialist. You can also have a friend or family member present during the exam, in addition to the trained assistant. Yet its too a point where they force us to wear full gowns an sheets and anything else to cover our bodies. I saw him a couple years later in a public place and he shouts out to me "Hey dude remember when your finger was in my butt!". I used to be one of these Americans shocked by the medical nudity in France, but now I know better although that didnt stop me from embarrassing myself last week at the physical therapist. 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